What Are You Giving This Holiday?
December is the month of giving and sharing. In the United States, it has also become the month of nonstop shopping. Holiday sales begin right after Halloween now—long before Thanksgiving ever arrives. What used to be the excitement of Black Friday has turned into weeks of advertisements, countdowns, and pressure to buy more.
Little kids know that Santa will bring them gifts on Christmas Eve. Many create long Christmas wish lists, dreaming of new toys waiting under the tree. When my kids were young, we used to buy so many gifts to exchange with their friends that on Christmas morning, piles of brightly wrapped presents filled our living room.
But the thrill of receiving gifts lasts only a moment. The excitement stretches from the second a child spots their name on a package… to the unwrapping… to the quick reveal. And then—just like that—it’s over. Many gifts were left untouched, never used or played with. What a waste of time, money, and effort.
I still remember one Christmas when my son Matthew burst into tears after all the presents were opened.
“Why didn’t I get the gifts I wanted?” he cried.
He had made a list of twelve items that year. My husband Alan and I glanced at each other, silently thinking the same thing: Of course we couldn’t buy all twelve gifts for him.
In Western culture, Christmas has become synonymous with exchanging gifts to show love and joy. For Christians, it is a celebration of Jesus’s birth and a time to share blessings and gratitude. Yet year after year, stores overflow with merchandise, inboxes fill with advertisements shouting “Sale!”, and people feel a strange urgency to complete their shopping list before Christmas Eve. I have to admit, I have spent many afternoons of Christmas Eve wandering through stores looking for last-minute gifts. And most of those gifts eventually ended up forgotten in closets.
So I can’t help but wonder:
Do we really need all those store-bought gifts?
Are there other ways to express love and appreciation?
Can we give something more meaningful—something that doesn’t become clutter?
The answer is yes.
This year, consider giving something that cannot be bought from a store, something rooted in the heart. Inspired by the “Five Love Languages,” here are twenty meaningful Christmas gifts that cost little or nothing, yet hold lasting value.
20 Heartfelt Christmas Gift Ideas (Beyond the Store Aisles)
Inspired by the Five Love Languages
WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
1. “365 Reasons I Love You” Jar
A year’s worth of daily encouragements, memories, and love notes.
2. Handwritten “Open When…” Letter Bundle
Letters for special moments: when you’re sad, when you’re stressed, when you need a hug.
3. Your Relationship Storybook
A simple handmade book recounting your journey, with doodles or printed photos.
4. Personalized Affirmation Art
Create a page of uplifting affirmations or meaningful quotes.
ACTS OF SERVICE
5. Coupon Book of Helpful Favors
Redeemable vouchers like:
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a weekend chore swap
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an organized closet or inbox
6. Homemade Holiday Meal or Dessert Box
Cook something special and add a handwritten note explaining the meaning behind the recipe.
7. A DIY At-Home Spa Experience
Draw a warm bath, prepare a homemade scrub, and create a restful atmosphere.
8. Organize Their Memories
Sort old photos into digital albums or create a slideshow of family moments.
QUALITY TIME
9. “A Day Together” Experience Card
Plan a custom day—hiking, a museum visit, a picnic, or exploring a new town.
10. Hot Chocolate & Story Night
Share childhood stories, favorite books, or memories by the Christmas tree.
11. At-Home Movie Night Kit
Use what you already have to create a cozy theater experience with handmade “tickets.”
12. Holiday Lights Walk Date
Take a slow night stroll (or drive) through decorated neighborhoods.
PHYSICAL TOUCH
13. Cozy Blanket Tradition
Share moments under a favorite blanket while reflecting on the year.
14. Massage Certificate (from You)
A personal, relaxing gift of touch and care.
15. A Week of “Morning Hug Rituals”
A simple but powerful practice to start each day with connection.
HANDMADE / THOUGHTFUL GIFTS (NOT STORE-BOUGHT)
16. Memory-Ornament DIY
Use photos or notes to create ornaments representing meaningful moments.
17. Repurposed Candle
Melt leftover wax from old candles to create a new, personalized one.
18. Family Recipe Book
Gather beloved family dishes and stories into a homemade booklet.
19. “The Soundtrack of Our Year” Playlist
Songs that capture your shared experiences, moods, and memories.
20. A Year-in-Review Video
A heartfelt video of photos and moments from the past year.
This Holiday, Give From the Heart
As we all grow older and wiser, perhaps we realize that the most meaningful gifts aren’t the ones we unwrap—they’re the ones we feel. Love, connection, presence, and appreciation can’t be bought from a store. They’re created, shared, and remembered.
May this Christmas be one filled not with clutter, but with care.
Not with pressure, but with presence.
Not with piles of gifts, but with moments that matter.
What will you give this holiday?
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